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Social-Emotional Milestones

Young child throwing leaves
Young child throwing leaves

Social-emotional development is a child’s ability to express their emotions effectively, follow rules and directions, form positive relationships with others, and build confidence. Many things affect social-emotional growth, such as a child’s biology, home environment, school environment, and life experiences. 

To learn in a classroom, children must be able to manage their feelings, pay attention to directions, and play and work well with others. Children who learn how to do these things are more likely to 

  • Establish friendships with other children their age 
  • Develop stronger speech and problem-solving skills 
  • Follow rules at home and at school 
  • Concentrate and work through a challenge 
  • Have confidence to try new things 

Click on the tabs below to learn by which age most children reach certain social-emotional milestones according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). 

 

BY 2 MONTHS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Calm down when spoken to or picked up
  • Look at your face
  • Seem happy to see you when you walk up to them
  • Smile when you talk to or smile at them

BY 4 MONTHS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Smile on their own to get your attention
  • Chuckle (not yet a full laugh) when you try to make them laugh
  • Look at you, move, or make sounds to get or keep your attention

BY 6 MONTHS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Know familiar people
  • Like to look at themselves in a mirror
  • Laugh 

BY 9 MONTHS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Are shy, clingy, or fearful around strangers
  • Show several facial expressions, like happy, sad, angry, and surprised
  • Look when you call their name
  • React when you leave (looking, reaching for you, or crying)
  • Smile or laugh when you play peek-a-boo

BY 1 YEAR, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Play games with you, like pat-a-cake

BY 18 MONTHS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Move away from you, but look to make sure you are close by
  • Point to show you something interesting
  • Put hands out for you to wash them
  • Look at a few pages in a book with you
  • Help you dress them by pushing arm through sleeve or lifting foot

BY 2 YEARS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Notice when others are hurt or upset, like pausing or looking sad when someone is crying
  • Look at your face to see how to react in a new situation  

BY 30 MONTHS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Play next to other children and sometimes play with them
  • Show you what they can do by saying, “look at me!”
  • Follow simple routines when told, like helping to pick up toys when you say, “it’s clean-up time.”  

BY 3 YEARS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Calm down within 10 minutes after you leave them, like at a childcare drop off
  • Notice other children and join them to play

BY 4 YEARS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Pretend to be something else during play (teacher, superhero, dog)
  • Ask to go play with children if none are around, like “can I play with Alex?”
  • Comfort others who are hurt or sad, like hugging a crying friend
  • Avoid danger, like not jumping from tall heights at the playground
  • Like to help
  • Change behavior based on where they are (place of worship, library, playground)

BY 5 YEARS, MOST CHILDREN... 

  • Follow rules or take turns when playing games with other children
  • Sing, dance, or act for you
  • Do simple chores at home, like matching socks or clearing the table after eating 

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